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Halloween Wetting Accidents

Halloween is probably a time of many wetting accidents for people of all ages. Lots of people pee their pants when they’re afraid. Halloween gives so many opportunities for that. Haunted houses, scary movies, people in scary costumes jumping out at you from behind a tree. I’m sure many people have been spooked so much that they left a puddle behind in a haunted house or two.

Maybe there’s even something nostalgic about wetting your pants in a halloween costume. Imagine you’re getting ready to go out to trick or treat, but you’ve had a lot of apple cider. And you know that you sometimes when you get suddenly frightened, you have a bladder accident. But you have a nice babysitter, she’ll make you feel better after your wetting accident.

This is the theme of my newest recording. A Halloween wetting accident – with trick or treating, spookiness and a surprise bladder failure. There are some elements of embarrassment and blushing involved. If you support my Patreon you already have access to it. If you’re not a Patreon supporter you can find it here.

It’s more centered on the accident and Omorashi themes than on age regression. However you can imagine it at any age that you like.

Happy Halloween everyone! And remember, if you’re prone to having halloween wetting accidents, maybe it’s best to wear a diaper before you go to any halloween parties.

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Guidance Through Hypnosis

Besides the positive effects of changing mindset and habits, hypnosis can be a form of guidance. Even if you don’t trance easily, you can have the effects of the guidance. Humans are social animals, and social influence often guides our thoughts and behaviors. When you struggle to relax on a stressful day, talking to someone who is calm and optimistic may help you let go of your stress. In a small way, the person’s mood guides your own. In hypnosis you have a similar effect. Hearing your hypnotist’s views will guide your own views. Wether you notice it or not, hearing affirming, hypnotic words every day will have an effect on you. If hypnosis reminds you everyday to accept your ABDL habits, after a few weeks you will believe it yourself. This is guidance through hypnosis.

How my hypnosis guides

Similar to meditation and inspirational speech – hypnosis can guide you to accept, change, or believe something. Not everyone likes mediation, and not everyone likes hypnosis. However, for some people it can be the guidance that helps them move forward.

In my hypnosis, my voice guides you into a specific direction, and you follow along, like watching a bubble float through the air. With each second that you follow the bubble, your other thoughts float away. Your mind focuses only on the ideas I tell you about – bed wetting, becoming incontinent in your diaper, or a wetting fantasy scenario. Then you find yourself living the fantasy, and following the guidance. You start to believe in a new version of yourself when in this guided trance. Hypnosis guides you away from other thoughts and towards something else.

Doing what you want can be hard

I find that even in my own life there are moments when social guidance helps. Sometimes pursuing my desires stresses me out. A few months ago I decided to take a trip that I’ve wanted to take for a long time. I bought my plane tickets and got my plans together, but found that I felt stressed out by it. Paying such a huge sum of money at a one time made me worry. I wondered if things would go wrong.

Then, I talked to my sister and watched as she got so excited for me. Listening to her be happy for me, made it easier for me to be happy for myself. There was no hypnosis or overt guidance. It was simply that her optimism for my decision was contagious. It was a form of indirect guidance.

Gaining certainty

So, hypnosis can act as this guide, especially in moments when you are unsure of your decisions. For many adult babies and littles this may mean being unsure if it’s ok to act childish. For diaper lovers it may me being unsure of going against the norm and using diapers. Listening to a guiding voice tell you that there’s nothing wrong with the ABDL lifestyle can help.

Hypnosis can steers your mind in a new direction. It can steer you to accepting your own desires for age regression and letting yourself go forward. Or hypnosis may allow you to go further into incontinence and diapers. It may help you accept your ABDL desires even if they are outside the norm. In the end, hypnosis offers guidance that can truly transform your mind.

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Trance as Escapism – A Defense

Both hypnosis and the ABDL lifestyle are often seen as escapist. Hypnosis can lead you deep into trance, away from everyday life problems. The ABDL lifestyle brings the comforts of diapers, stuffies, and feeling little. It’s true that hypnosis can bring some element of escapism. But the truth is that it’s not so different from any other form of escapism. Whenever anyone sits down to watch a movie or read a book, they’re escaping their own life to be part of a different world. Sports, traveling, video games – many hobbies give us the chance to go somewhere else. It’s not bad to escape your problems. whether it’s through trance or through video games. In fact, ruminating on your problems is usually a recipe for depression.

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The experience of trance can take you further. Not only does trance give you some room to breathe, but it can be a vehicle of self improvement. When you let yourself step back from your stressors – work, bills, task and just let yourself enter little-space you can find growth. In a state of trance it’s easier to build new habits and a positive mindset because your mind is open and suggestible.

Daydreaming

Even if you’re just enjoying a fantasy through hypnosis you’re doing something positive for yourself. You’re letting yourself step away from your problems and focus on ideas that let you feel good and thrive. Experiencing your ABDL fantasies in a state of trance let’s you experience them more fully. It’s like daydreaming in HD. The deeper level of awareness and deeper sensory sensations make your daydream feel realer. Allowing yourself to daydream is not bad. In fact, daydreaming can lead to more creativity, self awareness and compassion.

Every form of escapism has it’s limits. You wouldn’t want to spend all day watching T.V when you have real life to attend to. You don’t want to spend so much time daydreaming in a state of trance, when you have responsibilities. Escapism in the right amounts allows us a window of freedom, a window into something we enjoy. Enjoying your ABDL hobbies, daydreaming and enjoying trance can be positive forms of escapism. It gives you a breath of fresh air so you can get back to real life, more refreshed than before.

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More monthly videos through Patreon!

So in the spirit of full honesty, I’ve had many issues with my hypnosis store. I plan on re-launching it soon as I continue to work on solutions. The truth is that it’s difficult to produce, sell and market ABDL content because many payment processors do not support it.

However, I plan on finding a way to continue to sell those classic hypno recordings. I know that many people have benefitted from my diaper dependency trilogy, and people continue to email to ask about them. All the files in my hypnosis store are long, deep, carefully designed recordings.

The store with those diaper and age regression recordings will be up soon as I move them to a new platform. Alongside my hypno store, I am working on something new!

To make my ABDL hypnosis work more accessible I have launched a Patreon! For a lower price, you can get subscribe to new monthly recordings. For anyone who wants to follow me on this journey and get more access to diaper, wetting and adult baby recordings, subscribe to my Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/hypnomommy

I am still learning about Patreon and discovering how to use it. As time goes on I hope to evolve and develop my Hypno Mommy presence on both Youtube and Patreon. I also want to launch a kind of suggestion box on reddit for future recordings.

Thanks to all who continue to support me and send me nice messages. It really makes me smile, even if you can’t see it over the internet.

-Mommy V

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Shame in ABDL – How to overcome it!

One of the biggest things that gets in the way of fully enjoying your diapers is your own mind. I talk to many people who know that the ABDL lifestyle is part of them, but who struggle to fully accept it. There can be negative feelings – of shame, uncertainty or embarrassment. However – all of these feelings are just feelings – and you can overcome them. There are a few thoughts that may help you overcome shame when you pursue your ABDL lifestyle.

Everyone has something that gives them comfort.

What that thing is varies from person to person. However everyone has a basic right to enjoy their life and have hobbies. You have a right to enjoy your ABDL lifestyle. As long as you are not hurting anyone, there is nothing wrong with finding comfort in diapers or regression. Looking for comfort and relaxation is part of being human. That’s nothing to be ashamed about!

Everyone has parts of themselves outside of social rules.

Social rules are just ideas that a large group of people have agreed to. And social rules are different in different countries. If you talk to most people about what they’re interested in, everyone has something they know would be considered a little weird. You’re not alone here, everyone is somewhat outside of social rules. There is no shame in being an adult baby or a diaper lover!

Everyone is different!

Maybe not everyone will understand your ABDL lifestyle, but they don’t have to. Everyone has their own lifestyles, including lifestyle you wouldn’t understand. Just because it might seem weird to someone else doesn’t mean it is bad. Remember – you don’t need to have everyone’s approval to enjoy your life. All that matters is that you are enjoying your own life, with all it’s happy moments.

The more you accept the things you like, the more you can enjoy them. Shame and secrecy can make your ABDL lifestyle feel restrained. As you overcome the negative feelings, nurture yourself. Allow yourself to really enjoy the feelings you get from diapers and ABDL activities.

If you want to feel more positive feelings about yourself, you can purchase my Diaper Reassurance file for $12. In this new recording, my voice guides you into feelings of comfort and relaxation. Once in a peaceful state, I weed out any feelings of shame or uncertainty and reassure you that there is a place for diapers in your life. This file is available again, please contact me if interested.

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How to be your ABDL’s Caregiver

As a caregiver you can be soft and cuddly or a bit more strict and firm. If you are new to having a little or adult baby, this is a good place to start. If you are a little and want someone to be your caretaker you can also follow these steps. A caregiver role involves a combination of care and taking control, I’ll call these “soft affection” and “firm affection”.  After all, giving discipline to your little may be an important part of your little’s journey. Striking the balance between care and control is important.

Step 1: Discuss your needs and limits

Before you begin, you should both write down a few sentences about what you want to gain, as well as your limits. Share your writings with each other, and see what you have in common. Maybe your little wants a strict caregiver, and you aren’t sure if you want to be strict. Knowing this, you can decide how you can try our a new role. Discuss if you want your ABDL relationship to be 24/7 or only sometimes. Ask your little – what age do they regress to when they enter little space? How do they want to be treated when they are in that mental state? Most importantly, talk about your limits. Everyone has a different limit, which may shift over time. It’s okay if your limits are not the same, as long as you respect those boundaries.

Step 2: Explore soft affection

Ask your little about what gives them comfort. Are there comfort items – like a stuffed toy that they need to have near them? What are the things that help your little get into little-space? When are the times that they most need a comforting hug or a pacifier? How often do they want to be in little space with you? It may sound technical, but knowing how many times per week, or which days (for instance weekends) they want to feel little, can help you have the best experience. What are the types of physical affection your little likes most? How can you reward your little for good behaviors?

Step 3: Explore firm affection

Firm affection has to do with establishing rules, schedules, and discipline. As a caretaker this might mean setting a bed time, setting rules to get your little to eat vegetables, or giving them punishment for a bad habit. Are there any punishments that are a hard limit for your little? Decide together which habits you want your little to build, and decide if using rewards, punishments or both will work best. Decide together if you want to have a schedule that you follow. It may even help to write it out on a calendar. Similarly, if there are rules you want your little to follow, you can write them down on a piece of paper so your little can look back to them and pay attention.

Remember, all of these things may change as you explore your relationship and that’s okay! The important thing is to always return to your discussion and make sure that you are both in agreement.

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October Diaper Dependency Sale

 

October is my favorite month of the year! I l love Halloween and all the nostalgia that come with it, carving pumpkins, watching Halloween movies, eating candy corn! It’s also a great time for transformation when you dress up as whatever you want to be, whether it’s something scary or silly. I’ve found that dressing up for Halloween can be a time for people to experiment with their identity, including experimenting with diapers.

There’s finally an excuse to dress a little edgier or dye your hair purple. For some more reserved people, it’s the one time of year when they can be a little weird an no one will notice. It’s also the only time of year when people wear black lipstick without coming across as goth. So October is a magical time – the leaves change, the temperature changes, people change. Enjoy October with the goal of going deeper into your ABDL identity, letting that transformation happen. Let yourself lose control of your bladder and become diaper dependent. It’ll ensure that you are extra warm in the winter when you’re in a diaper.

Enjoy a 50% of sale on all my diaper dependency hypnosis recordings! 

 

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Love your ABDL self: Don’t Binge and Purge

A common problem in the ABDL lifestyle is binging and purging. You go from jumping into the ABDL life to wanting to leave it. Plunging into something new, even if it’s something you like can be a shock. Diapers and baby items can bring out feelings of shame and anxiety because the ABDL life is still seen as fringe. However, that doesn’t mean this lifestyle can’t give you comfort and joy. I sometimes see advice for adult babies and littles claim drop everything and commit to this lifestyle. As a mommy, don’t support that. Nurture the changes that you see in yourself but don’t force them!

Take Baby Steps 

(Pun intended). If you’re just starting out in the lifestyle, start small. Get a comfort object- a pacifier or blankie, and start using it. Try things out one step at a time and see how it affects you. Remember there’s no rush to plunge into being an adult baby full time. If you take on too many habits too fast, you might start pushing it away. Too much change happening fast can exhaust anyone. The shock of plunging yourself into an ABDL lifestyle will not be in your favor, trust me. For instance, before deciding to become diaper dependent, try to wear diapers for one day during the week and work up to it slowly. Let your mind adjust and accept the things you are doing. If it feels like too much, take a break.

Box Your Baby Things, Don’t Throw Them Out 

The ABDL lifestyle comes in varying degrees. Some people live in diapers 24/7 and others only drop into little-space sometimes. There can be times when you have dry spells when you just aren’t feeling into it. This is perfectly normal – humans are never in a constant mental state. These dry spells are the times that babies and littles want to “purge” their habits by throwing away their diapers, toys and comfort items. During these times, instead of throwing them out, put them in a box for later. Remember:  even though you aren’t feeling drawn to these items now, you may want them later. Put the box away and if you still don’t want these things in 6 months, then throw them out. Break from the cycle of bingeing and purging.

Remember Why You’re ABDL 

If you find yourself getting into bouts of shame or uncertainty, remind yourself of all the things you enjoy in the ABDL lifestyle. There may be times when you feel shame or even rejection of the things you like, but remember you aren’t hurting anyone by liking what you like. Everyone has things that bring them comfort, and this is yours. It may help to keep a journal for yourself.  When you have a nice experience getting into little space or regressing, write about it. Describe the positive feelings you have for your ABDL activities, and later on when you’re feeling uncertainty, you can read through your thoughts. You’ll remember all the good things that come with being in the ABDL lifestyle.

Remember, everyone is on their own path and everyone has a right to enjoy it. Enjoy your ABDL self!

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5 ABDL Holiday Activities

Nurture your little side this holiday season! All of these ideas can be done with a care giver, alone or even discretely with family and friends who don’t know about your ABDL side.  

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1. Make a DIY Snow globe 

Almost everyone has some craft that can be a stress reliever. Watching the snow swirling around in your own snow globe is pretty magical. And it’s easy because all you need is an empty glass jar and a few craft supplies! Instructions for the one above are found here.

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2. Make milk and cookies.

The holidays are a perfect time to try out new (or old) cookie recipes. You can try a simple gingerbread recipe, and have fun decorating your gingerbread people. Or go the easy route and buy some pre-made cookie dough. And of course- your cookies with a warm bottle or cup of milk.   

3. Watch holiday cartoons!

Another path into nostalgia is watching your holiday favorites.Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer and Frosty the Snowman are timeless, and there are plenty more holiday cartoons on Youtube and Kiss Cartoon. Curl up with a warm blanket and enjoy the fuzzy feelings because after all, some of these classics are just great movies.  

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4. Color in a holiday coloring book!

 Coloring is a fun way to get into little space, and furthermore they’ve been shown to reduce stress in adults. Don’t worry about coloring inside the lines! Turn on some holiday music and spend time coloring. You can buy the one pictured above here (and support independent artists as you color).   

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5. Finally, get yourself a special gift. 

The holidays aren’t just for getting gifts for friends and family. You should celebrate by getting a gift for yourself too. Indulge in your ABDL desires and get yourself a new blankie, a stuffie or something that brings you into little space. 

The holidays can be a stressful time, but you can always find small ways to get into little space and let yourself regress. Get the cookies and crayons and have a lovely holiday season!

-Mommy V